Someone who texts a lot. If they can do it, so can you.

Someone who texts a lot " - Henry Cloud Best wishes! I can’t deal with people not messaging. One friend in particular (24m) broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago and now texts my gf all the time. OR 2. I prefer to talk and get to know someone in person. Late 30s and older tend to go with words only. That way I know they have time to chat. If you are that person texting someone, sort feels like youre asking to be entertained, and maybe he doesn't have time for that Reply reply Aggravating-Action70 • I respond slowly when I’m at work usually, that’s also a common reason Mind you, I explain to people that I have a lot of "off" days. In fact, the following is exactly what I said via text: I'm just not someone who is used to contact contact. " That stuff can be talked about on dates, while hanging out, etc. Recently, I’d noticed a pattern in my dating habits. Nobody is forcing you to interact with someone you would not be "typically interested in". Someone who texts constantly anyway will message you and 5 other girls every day while someone who doesn't do it much may only do so to start planning a date and maybe 1 extra day that week but that's more than he texts anyone else he knows because he's super into you. Saves everyone a lot of time to just say hi and verify you are both available to talk. I wish texting could go back to just a quick note that you’re running late or something. If the conversation seems to be going well otherwise don’t assume anything No text at all. Don't ever waste your time texting extensively and never allow your emotions to give in over electronic communication. Still, I wonder If I could rephrase the original question: "Do you text a lot? If so, who to?" to: 1. Sending a text takes like 30 seconds max. People text differently. I have never been able to maintain a relationship or friendship with someone who wants to text a lot, or daily. "Do you If it's a girl I'm attracted to I only text to set up a date. So, for me, I send a text & then set the phone down & go do something to distract me, cuz anxiously waiting for texts is frankly not very fun or a good use of my women never ask me questions yet they message back and forth then disappear so fast. So if they do it to me typically they’ll apologize for the late response and I’ll be like “no problem, I do the exact same thing” and then we laugh Coming from someone (almost 30f) similar, I feel like texting is overrated at this point. (We are both in our young 30s) He’s never been a super big texter from day one. Some people are not into texting, and some people have a lot going on. I send paragraphs and word blocks over the I know people in real life who are a blast to hang out with, but via text, they’re really dry. Texting is so very complicated and tough simply because you're trying to do something via text that is normally done with speech, intonation and on and on. Remember, you deserve to be surrounded by people who value and appreciate you. I'm just generally paranoid of the scam thing on top of having friends who were text "accidentally" and ended up having a pen pal sort of friendship (and by friends, I mean 2 people. 1. But I guess that doesn’t mean they don’t Here having googled 'What to do about someone who texts me too much'. Also, a slight time play can help a lot when building relationship with people - others can usually tell if you're actually ignoring them or you're actually busy I don't like texting people in the moment that they are texting me, because if they ask me for a favor or want to make plans with me impulsively, I don't have to say no, I would Also, guys who use a lot of emojis are usually kind of dumb, they are unable to form an opinion and instead use emojis to compensate. Don’t text me back within 30seconds of me sending a text. You make the complicated stuff look so easy. If the other person is sharing important information or expressing their feelings, a more thoughtful response might be appropriate. Yes, it takes a lot of work. This is what I have Texting is a huge part of our world now and how you compose your messages, tweets, emails and other forms of online communication can reveal a lot about your personality. tbh i don’t think it’s selfish or narcissistic or disrespectful or anything like that. Someone who has deep, intense conversations with friends will do so with any friend they are close with. I think it’s less annoying for people if they don’t get a million messages one right after the other Other people get anxious over texting and prefer to call. ” would be annoyed. So she gravitated to that veey quickly. Does that make 55 Helpful Words of Encouragement for Someone Dealing with Work Stress. A look at both texting styles in action Also don't do it at all if the person really reciprocates / texts back fast. Dawn Sarno is the director of the AVANT Lab at Clemson University and author of a recent research paper exploring people’s susceptibility to scam text messages and other types of fraud. That's just the way it is. I'm looking for a North American idiom for someone who talks a lot but it can't have a negative connotation. Many people have that someone of the opposite sex who they can talk about anything and everything. they aren’t entitled to me, either. She sends me replies 3 times bigger with detailed info and shares thoughts. And i know it's not just a mistext because a) the area code is from the US and b) I'm getting like 3 of these texts a week, with variations of these messages that make it seem like someone is texting the wrong person. If someone doesn’t text back and posts things online I guess it could mean that they forgot or they don’t want to text you. I usually reply in the first like 30 seconds after I get a message from someone. 3. People draw far too many conclusions from it. Read 8 comments. After that told her i’ll contact her in a few months, she said “no stay in touch. I’m cool with a lot of texting once we’ve met a few times I think it’s a far bigger waste of time for people to think up some witty opening message for dozens of people who aren’t even looking at the app or aren’t going to answer no matter what you send. But we only see each other for a few minutes at a time and familiarised ourselves to be cordial and say hello/how are you. My friends do this, too There are numerous adjectives that can be used (like wordy, redundant, or extraneous), but I'll focus on one that might be of interest to the English learner: flowery language. I ended it because my work requires deep concentration. This guy texts ALL the timeand to be honest, I’ve never heard or known about a guy who texts a lot. It’s about being mindful with communication. it's a little sad, i tell you, being thanked for not being an arse. Personally if they don't text me I'll text a girl every few days so 2-3 isn't crazy. Don't text good morning or goodnight to some you're getting to know, save that for a relationship but sparingly. If you’re not careful, you can easily misinterpret what something innocent means – or miss on picking up an important cue like a guy really likes you. But I think "sees a text message and forgets to respond" is something that happens to a lot of people all of the time, without much significance behind it. he might still be attracted to you and he Texts have certainly changed the way we communicate with others, but I personally loath the notion that I need to respond to texts ASAP. "Hey what time are yall going to WingStop?" "7" yeah that's a text. 2. The friends that ignore your messages i suppose they think they are celebrities because a lot of people text them. And we reply as soon as we can without even Don't try and suffer through a bunch of these types of dates if you can move on or get to know more than one person at one time. Many others are in While you might feel at a loss for how to help, sending a text to someone who’s anxious really can make a difference in how they feel. I have a friend who is much more like you and if I text more than a sentence or two he will just call me, which drives me insane because I'm busy and Which makes me feel less interested. For example, “haha” might seem pretty innocent – but [] A simple, straightforward text is always a good choice. 4. Life is just busier and more stressful for everyone these days. There is no reason why someone can’t text you back in less than 24 hours. I’m pretty antisocial and don’t like talking to or hanging out with people often but I almost never mind when someone texts me a lot. Diving into this topic, we’ll explore the behaviors commonly associated with those who are always prompt with their text responses. Safety for those who settle, is that they are a safe person that won't divorce them despite not loving 100%. It takes away a lot of the anticipation of getting to know someone. Fast responses to texts can often say a lot about a person’s personality and behavior. One We do not know each other in person but we have seen each other in real life. Here are 50+ encouraging words for someone who is stressed, I’m sure you’ll find something that works perfectly What does it mean when someone uses your name a lot? 39 replies lionjay · 18/05/2023 21:37 There's a guy I see every so often going to/from work he does shifts, so it varies. Like, she doesn't text me, it's it me? In your situation, it clearly is across the board, but he probably doesn't realize or believe it, so he takes it personal. If they can do it, so can you. I don't do casual after about 4, maybe 5 dates. So sometimes they get lost that way too. It's a silly thing really and I have no idea why I feel that way but it's It's still bad to text in front of the other person, which can be addressed in a more respectful way. Be true to yourself and text the way you prefer, so that you'll click with someone who is a good fit for you. Men don’t generally use emojis unless they’re trying to convey their feelings for you. I’m also one to text back pretty quick, I do it with my partner who also takes a while to And I get a lot of spam texts. And it only happened once with each) with the person and a couple months down the road they pen pal started talking about "investment opportunities". If I don’t open a message for a few days, I’m not “making excuses”. Why waste time on someone who can’t care less about you. Or letting someone know when you initially talk to them that you have a If he's been initiating texts a lot with me, I'll go ahead and initiate it once or twice. Everyone I text are victims of my word bombings. And when that someone is a guy you are interested in, it’s even better. They text each other EVERY SINGLE MINUTE of the dayfrom morning till they go to bed in the night. It's like effortless no strings attached FWBs. Rebecca Leslie The Way You Text Can Reveal a Lot About Your Personality. My wife doesn't text, even to answer a one off text during the day. A look at both texting styles in action In those 5 months no calls/texts/visits. If it's like every single time they use it wrong I guess that I personally would not be compatible with someone who did not at least text me once a day, I like to say good morning and good night at the bare minimum. Then the answer could be: 1. Have you ever received a text back Texts and calls 24/7 are actually a warning sign that you could be entering into an abusive relationship. (They aren't going to sit and wait for your texts. Messaging over text, be it by SMS or through social media and chat apps, has become one of the most popular ways to communicate with people. Absolutely, but if someone just texts me all day with the most inane shit then it's gonna annoy me because then I have to carry the convo if you're not offering me something I can really respond to. If your personal They try to tell you but you don’t listen. Emojis. I don't think I A lot of people I text with will use “k 👍🏻” as an acknowledgment, not something sarcastic. The most exciting things I might have going on day to day is something I got in the mail, a video game achievement or how many steps I got in my post work day time off. Assuming one has a Here is what it means when a girl says haha in a text: When a Girl Says Haha in A Text? If a girl sent you a ‘haha’ in a text message, she is saying something you said was funny! It’s common for a lot of people to use abbreviations like LOL (laugh out loud), LOLz, or ROFL (roll on the floor laughing), but haha means the same thing. If they say something with substance that needs a reply, I will reply. If you struggle with ending your text convos I know people in real life who are a blast to hang out with, but via text, they’re really dry. If it's like every single time they use it wrong I guess that might be annoying. With my experience with ADHD, it’s a mix of things—I am not in a place where I can focus on the conversation/follow along, it takes extra mental effort/ energy to reply (through writing) to every point in the message, it also takes energy to sound engaged (sometimes my brain is super Even with most people who are busy, they will let you know ahead of time or afterwards. By messaging you a lot, he will be hoping that you are going to message him back and as such must at least like him as a friend. And still text a lot. Filing a report is a great first step, and having evidence to back it up is even better. One of my friends that are girls snitched on me and told her so now she is very suspicious. Rachel But if I really have to decipher almost every message someone sends to me, I know I won't be able to look past that. I know I have annoyed people in the past by messaging too much, too often, but my object permanence means I need to, or I forget them. Secret_chocolate may be over thinking this. I wouldn’t message someone excessively because I thought I would freak them out, but then I realised these people are my friends, and it doesn’t matter how much you message them. Texts me incessantly on every platform. He has the nickname tall-talker, which sounds odd but seems to work for him! Related – Here are some nicknames for people who think they know everything! How to Deal with Someone Who Talks a Lot. I couldn’t help wondering if he was just using this as an excuse so we didn’t have to talk a lot. Well I’m a guy who in texts joke Whether it’s via text, at a bar or Steak ‘n Shake, “hard to get” is a thing of the past. I don’t love texting during the initial dating period because I feel like there is a lot of miscommunication and misinterpretation and I would prefer for one of us to pick up the phone and/or get to know each other in person. If he texts you using a heart emoji, in love eyes, the hugging emoji, the kissing face, or any of the other emojis that have hidden, sexual connotations, take it as a sign that he has feelings for you and wants something more than just friendship. In fact, I text less with the people who I consider really close friends because I feel like my relationship isn’t dependent on how often I talk with them. 1) You’re highly perceptive (you mirror other people’s level of text-engagement) Do you Most of the issues people bring up here are solved by picking up the phone and having a conversation where you can hear the person's voice. MEN do not gab, chat or spew information tidbits. As one adage goes: "Many are called but few are chosen. Texting is completely different from a formal letter and it gives us all the opportunity to express our true selves. Beyond that he could be testing you to see if you like him enough to initiate a conversation. I text the news to my boss. Messages you throughout the day. Otherwise messaging people can just eat up your whole day. Not to give out a generalized excuse but for me, I always feel like I'm bothering someone if I text first so I try to wait until they do. Neither way is wrong nor right. " emojis. I text my boss the news. 5 years started grad school last year and has a great group of friends within. I want someone who has a full life and doesn’t feel super invested in some rando (me). Maybe you think people are your friends and they aren't there yet, like you guys aren't that close to be texting like that. Lots of smileys etc. I’ll be honest sometimes I obsess over people especially girls and will text them a lot but then later it could be that I just don’t want to text them or anyone else. I am one of those people who does not immediately respond to texts either because if someone says, "Hey," they haven't really said anything to me. Jokes about nicknames aside, dealing with someone who talks a lot can be incredibly If someone in your life needs a lot of extra attention right now — maybe because they keep getting sucked into stressful family arguments, and really need to vent about it — this will be the As somebody who uses swipe texting, these get mixed up a lot and I always think people who take the time to correct it are being annoyingly pedantic. Maybe your making friends with people with adhd who mostly don't text first because of object permanence issues. Start and end the day by talking to each other even if you don’t talk a lot during it. Texting means that the other person is doing something. Keep meeting people until you feel comfortable and secure with them. Text her a couple times lock in that in-person date and go from there. Yeah it's a little peeve of mine too. Because, hey, “if you are missing someone and want to reconnect, you can just be honest and say it,” psychologist Dr. Lot of people who text wants to hide behind their phones cus they're not confident irl or feel insecure in person cus of looks or accent etc. Sometimes it’s a call. It’s asinine. Just keep to what you can realistically manage while getting to know people well. Reply reply More replies. “Lol” and “haha” are most commonly used to indicate laughter. . I've known people who literally go to work, watch primetime TV, then go to sleep. Save everything—even what you think won’t be important. In the beginning of a relationship, this constant contact may feel like a sign of love. ” On the other side, Braden, 20, says, “It makes She texts me everyday and she likes to start hello first. I kid you not!!! Nobody texts someone that much if they don’t care about them. i used to feel the way u felt until i realized i wasn’t entitled to anyones time or effort, even if that just means a five sec text message. Especially so when it comes When there's a lot to say, their text boxes may be giant, but if there's not much to share paragraph senders may settle for a single sentence or two. In general it's just tough. 7. Similar to how you can become friends with others in person, becoming friends over text is also something you can easily learn, practice, and eventually, master. I despise that it’s become the most important element to relational communication . "Hey man work was mega shit today and I'm feeling like shit and just wanna talk to For many people, texting is a major source of relationship communication. Messaging a person a lot can sometimes be done to seek reassurance from a potential love interest. The people who don’t message me (either initiate contact or reply back) start to fall between the cracks, fade away. Snoozy – a person who always seems to be sleepy or drowsy, often struggling to stay awake during the day. Someone who texts frequently will be seen texting often and texting in bed. But the person I'm dating right now didn't grow up online. In May, a domestic abuse survivor shared screenshots of text messages her abusive No matter how often you text or how rarely, we all have very different texting habits. It Document the harassment by taking screenshots of the text messages. It’s about getting your piece out there. Yes, platonic friendships Right now, I'm dealing with someone in my life who texts me daily. And less masculine. Keep reading to discover the red flags that might mean you're texting way too much. I will always try to reply to them when I realise that is something they need but I will end up feeling really sad and drained by being on my phone constantly throughout the day. We're still dating and we text a bit more now that we I'll text people for information, like making plans or whatever, but when i want to actually have a conversation I would much rather call than text. Without non-verbal signals, text messages can be misinterpreted or Some people like short instantaneous messages back and forth, others like composing longer messages when they can find the time to focus on replying to you. You’re always friendly and pleasant to talk to. I enjoy companionable silence and both of us being able to do different activities in a shared space without the need to entertain each other. I've had a lot of drawn out conversations lately where I think the other person has dropped off but they end up texting me back. I’d meet someone, and next thing I knew, we were texting more frequently than I text my best friends. I have no ill intent; it’s never about ignoring someone because I don’t like them. I recently, very nicely, told them that I'm not the type of person to engage in constant contact. Some days I wont even be on my phone When someone you care about ignores your texts, it can take an emotional toll on you. Like, they have nothing to say. It helped a lot, on top of medication and regular appointments. And honestly there’s a lot of people that just naturally take a longer time to text back. but this is every woman i have encounter idk i give up if i have to carry the conversation every time and it is a dead end. Speaking from experience, those quick text responders tend to exhibit certain traits that psychology can help us understand. I got her to believe me that I don't like her but I think she is having second thoughts because I rarely talk to her now. No need for endless texting while still It’s great to text a guy a lot and feel connected via your smartphones, but it’s not cool if you’re texting him so much that you’re neglecting the rest of your life. idk u either die a hero or live long enough to become the villain, i would def be your villain because i don’t put any I tend to text a lot of messages, but I’ve been trying to respond lately with one message, but breaking it up into statements within the message. I feel like if someone can't send a message within 24-48 hour then they really aren't too interested. Text her because heard she broke up with the douche she was dating, we talked for a month and hung out a few times. Perhaps he really likes secret_chocolates name, secret_chocolate. This may be the reason that guy texts you every day. But I generally write long texts to the people I’m into, it’s literally just that I’ve got a lot going on and dating isn’t my sole priority. But then I also know people who text a lot and are way more quiet in real life. Some people want to text and voice chat for a random length of time and then go on a first date that Creating that spontaneity in person is a lot easier than via text. It really depends on the individual person and if it’s an issue for you you should talk about it with him. If you settle for someone you lust for and just like a lot, you don't have the security of having that as your last thought and to comfort you. If someone you are dating sends you texts everyday, it could be that he wants to confirm that you are into each other. When I see them in person again, they don’t act like they have a problem, but still they pretty commonly ignore my texts. And since you can’t tell what a person is thinking through text, it’s so frustrating having to decode their feelings. She is much older than me, clearly lonely and seeking to connect. Talking like 1 text every day or day and a half. "Constant texts and phone calls is a way to monitor another person's activities. But it’s important to assess the impact it has on your mental well-being and I'm looking for a North American idiom for someone who talks a lot but it can't have a negative connotation. My (24m) girlfriend (23f) of 2. Why men love flirting over text. Here’s what those habits reveal about you. I don't know secret_chocolate. When there's a lot to say, their text boxes may be giant, but if there's not much to share paragraph senders may settle for a single sentence or two. By filling your time with positive and fulfilling activities, you’ll be less inclined to constantly text someone who ignores you. Thank you, was thinking the same thing. It lifts my spirits every time I see you. It can impact a lot of things in someone's life. I have no problem with people being friends with the those of the opposite sex. I'm pretty down to earth. This feels somewhat new-ish, like a month old. Yeah that's one of my biggest pet peeves, is people who send 8 billion texts when it's clearly a more call appropriate situation. People are just looking to be cool with who they think is cool so if you’re perseved as a lame then you’ll probably not gonna get that much attention or outreach by your “ friends” that too maybe that person you may not have that much bonding with as much as you think. It was sad because I felt like we missed out on experiencing that. There's no rush to move things forward. The "bye" dilemma: Texts are ways of telling people short snippets. The thing is, she likes to text a lot, too. People get busy and just aren't attached to their phones sometimes. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. I don't think such differences in communication styles A lot of people are shockingly JUST NOT INTERESTING in the slightest, and it's depressing. And honestly a text buddy can be fun, especially if you are sending nudes and stuff. ANY guy that texts a lot, or who texts all sorts of extraneous info without having been asked for it, is annoying. This article will explore some of the best words you can How often do y’all text someone you’re just starting a potential relationship with? So I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks, and I know that’s still super fresh. I better communicate with my friends on Dreamer – a person who spends a lot of time sleeping, often experiencing vivid or lucid dreams while asleep. Life is too short to deal with Regardless when people message me be it friends of whoever is contacting me. Getting a text from someone you have just met is a great feeling—there is always the excitement of the mystery it holds. Reply reply Just because someone texts me does not mean I am now responsible to have an all day (which it will turn into if that person likes you) conversation with them. A lot of people stress themselves out thinking that the other person wants a response immediately when that may not always actually be the case. It's not your fault, they're messed up. A lot of people are shockingly JUST NOT INTERESTING in the slightest, and it's depressing. If a guy you barely know is sliding into your DMs trying to have emotional playful convo, red flag. comments sorted by Best Top New Controversial Q&A Add a Comment So "Do you text a lot? If so, who to?" actually means: "Do you text a lot? If so, who do you text the news to?". A lot of people work, go to the gym, have to deal with fixing dinner and maybe have an hour where they can do chores or relax before starting all over again. She interrogates me a lot While bad texters typically refer to people who flake on responding, there are also people who do respond to texts, but do so in a way that leaves the recipient feeling cold. I would also like to check in and see how they are feeling, as well as share how I’m feeling. I hate talking on the phone, and most of the time I just don’t feel like messaging people. “Anxiety can be an isolating experience,” Carrie Potter I find it really difficult and I blame it on a lot of things. Guys have different default levels of interest/engagement with texting. I guess the big takeaway is a lot of people aren’t great communicators and may not realize how they come across For example, I have a friend who is 6’4 and talks a lot. I could just use a little advice- I’m thinking of just leaving it for a day and seeing if he responds (my last message to him was “hope you have a lovely day” and he said he was going for a walk, but didn’t reciprocate anything else); if he doesn’t, I might text him after that and ask if he’s lost interest because I’d just rather know if he’d rather not text anymore so I can Men can be quite puzzling, and that’s why in this article I will give you 15 surprising reasons a guy would text you, but avoid you in person. I loathe it since I’m so much better in person or even on the phone. People that text all Without texting, we couldn’t have those spontaneous late-night chats where we discussed the meaning of life or shared a LOL at random things. If the other person doesn't text enough for your liking, don't change who you are by not texting The conversation in text messages just ends when someone feels like it has ended, which is not set in stone or follows any rules. It’s been happening for 37 years. 4 years ago. Text messaging isn’t meant to be an instantaneous conversation, it’s meant to convey small bits of information. Reply reply As somebody who uses swipe texting, these get mixed up a lot and I always think people who take the time to correct it are being annoyingly pedantic. There are no I've never felt any way about someone sending a hello text personally (Unless its someone who has a history of only texting me when they need something) U can just respond with a "hey" back and see where theyre going, you dont have to lead the convo, or, just ignore it, if they dont follow up with anything else, fuck it. But one of the most After 10+ years you tend to know your partner's patterns. For a lot of people, texting or chatting through various social media platforms is their main way of making friends with other people. ) More than likely, whatever they're doing is more entertaining than whatever they could be reading from another person over text, especially if what they're reading is "hi". What this story tells me is: he didn't used to text in bed or get distracted during outings together 6. Most people you meet don't become dates, most dates don't become relationships, and most relationships don't lead to marriage. Someone who writes well deserves to be complimented if you’re impressed by them. But, if it starts off with lots of text convos and drops off, that should be taken as a message. You can’t make people to respect you but you can remove yourself from a situation and focus on those who actually care. A guy who likes you will text a lot—even when they’re A guy using your name in texts a lot could be a sign that he is attracted to you especially if he only does it with you, if he wants to hang out with you and if he shows signs of attraction in person. Talking for a little bit or ignoring it completely because I have things to do is not Text messages are an awesome tool to communicate with other people—until they're not. So when a guy texts you everyday, what does that mean? See his intentions in 21 possible reasons. Maybe the hurt person had to cancel a trip or hire a nanny because of their injury—these choices are hard, and talking about them shows you understand the gravity of their situation. Reply reply Platipus6 Imo emojis are fine - that being said, how a person texts says a ton about them. If the world had more people like you in the workforce, it would be a much better place. Cut off your contact with them. happens to me a lot too. A lot of this has to do with friendstyles and lifestyles as well. Text speak can often be hard to decipher, especially when you start texting back and forth with someone new. Same. That also seems to be the delineation between people using acronyms and abbreviations. But right on. I have noticed over past 3-4 years even females have been more aggressive in pursuit. You are a blessing. Texting back and forth about nothing important at times apart isn't "making time for someone. But when you don’t know someone in real life, and your first impression of them is via text, yeah, I completely understand where you’re coming from. Some people want to get to know you over text for weeks before even voice chatting. If I'm dating someone for whom texting is important we can usually work something out where we send a few texts or have a phone call in the evening. I realized I’m addicted to Yeah the thumbs up reply has a dismissive tone, gives off the vibe that they don’t have time or energy to write actual words I’m sure people don’t mean it that way, my brother will do it a lot. A friend of mine however usually sends 40-50 texts a day when he’s in a new relationship with video calls on top. And will have zero chance of getting the girl. One of the most obvious signs you're texting too much is that almost every message in your conversations comes from you. When your texting gets out of hand, it can change the way people think about you and start negatively impacting both your life and the lives of others. Basically, "do I want to keep putting my heart into this person if they aren't exclusive". Trying to turn these into a meetup though is like pulling teeth so I usually just let them fizzle. You may find that you're a lot happier on the other side. Some people hate being on a cell phone 24/7. You’ve got loads of other things to do than get neck strain You don't want to text too little, but texting too much in relationships can in fact be detrimental if both partners aren't on the same page. The people/things that I care about the most get the least amount of action in terms of a “reply” anyway, I spend days thinking/overanalysing a response and sometimes it just gets to the point where I get sick of thinking/processing and I send a half cocked message that doesn’t represent the time and Is it okay to just respond “okay” after someone texts you an entire paragraph? While responding with a simple “okay” might seem dismissive, it’s important to consider the context of the conversation. That's why it can come across as random or even rude. people are so used to people being assholes over petty things, they think someone doing the bare minimum must be appreciated. (22) am one of those folks who will ignore texts from people for at least a day or two simply because I do not have the mental energy to respond/continue a conversation. If someone really truly needs me ASAP, call me. Once you two are kinda comfortable with eachother then maybe escalate the texting. Like, I just started a really rigorous (read: mildly torturous) MFA program with an hour and a half commute each way, I'm working multiple freelance gigs and a part-time gig, and I'm doing my best to maintain my friendships, keep up with therapy and self-care/health, *and* still have If you know a good writer, you might be interested in finding a good word to describe them. I like "Good morning" texts and I like "Night :)" texts and I like "I'm thinking of you" texts. You also use the phrasing "but over text he is quite expressive and sweet" - implying this is somehow negative, while stating right after that you like that he is charming over text, "but. I think a lot of people use texting as a form of validation and entertainment. Right, not trying to make excuses. Again, I know this is unfair and some people are just big into texting. You ask them 'what's up' and they say 'nothing' because they're literally just sitting there watching TV doing nothing. My messages are shorter. Just to give an example, I matched with someone who we texted non-stop for like, 3-4 hours after matching, and did the same the next day. It usually takes me several minutes to write a simple text. " "Dating is primarily a numbers game. The reason why is that I don’t talk to a lot of people, and I used to be worried in the same way you are. The texting her every day is within the context of also flirting with her and touching her. For some women things are very tit for tat. It's getting out of hand. If I know the person, I wouldn’t assume “k 👍🏻” is annoyed, and I wouldn’t assume “okay” is annoyed, but for most people I text with “Okay. comments sorted by Best Top New Controversial There's a lot of threads about one type of person complaining about the OTHER type of persons' communication style; I'd always aim my comments on expressing my firm siding in the second camp (insta-text, insta-response), and either be downvoted to hell (because the first camp of people got to the comment first, obscuring it from anyone else The same reason a lot of people text people multiple times when they get no response. But people have started using them for other reasons—surprising reasons. I know "busy" is sometimes used as an excuse, too, but honestly, a lot of us are. She could just be someone who types a lot. It’s hard to know what to say when someone is stressed, but saying the right thing can make all the difference to them. It brought me a lot of It seems that people younger than their late 30s use them a lot. Reply reply Texting is insane. Reply reply giggleboxx3000 • OP's point still stands. I'm bonkers about him. I went on a few dates with a Kindergarten teacher, she was bored and texted 20+ times a day. Call and text me and I will call and text you” in an annoyed voice because she hates when I dissapear I don't like getting a lot of "thinking of you" type texts because I find it distracting and annoying so I tell people that. He may want to be friends, or he may want a romantic relationship. Good luck! I usually never go on my text messages bc my family are usually the ones who message me on there. There’s a lot of stress involved to get the wording just right. Sleepyhead – a person Yes a lot of times your just busy with life but to text someone it only takes like 30seconds Max these days. Coming from the other side (I’m a bad texter), what I can say is that how much I text someone in no way reflects how much I value my relationship with them. Interest is, mostly, what happens on the dates Nope! People are on their phones all the time. I have an acquaintance who considers us way closer than I am comfortable. old is a complete waste of time imo if someone can't be bothered to ask you questions and makes you carry the conversations they aren't interested and its time to ditch them. Much like you, I am pressured and hassled by the persistent and inane texts. "Texting is subjective," matchmaking and dating Texting in the beginning will ruin the kind of conversation you should have in person. But people thinking that it has anything to do with intelligence are so full of it. Then again secret_chocolate may have stumbled upon someone who refers to people in 3 rd person. And also, any idioms for when you face a challenge or something is challenging. Don’t drink dial me 11 times if I don’t reply to you within 10min. I really can't wrap my head around when someone texts me and then I immediately text them back and I don't hear How a guy texts you tells a lot about their feelings for you. Things can be misread in text Yes. Do you deliberately text in lowercase? Are emojis always a part of your messages? Maybe you use periods after each sentence? Personally, I’m a fan of correct punctuation and direct, Shoot me a text or two and wait for a response. A lot of people said not to send anything but dating shouldn’t be about the show of power or Oh god, all of this. If you like texting everyday, do it. I don't use any kind of text speak and use punctuation so apparently that makes me really old. A lot of people, especially older men, have no patience for the minutiae of texting back and forth about nothing while I prefer to either meet up in person or have a call (10-20 minutes) in the evening to talk about our day. My teenager always makes fun of me and says I text people paragraphs but I just text the way I talk. Text is an impersonal way to communicate and you can't see body language or "subtext". Psychology. It’s time to prioritize yourself and move forward. A lot of people do this. The difference, of course, is that texting your best friends is a fun diversion, whereas texting someone you’re interested in can feel exhilarating but also exhausting. Text an injured person memes, fun GIFs, hilarious TikToks, jokes, or ridiculous selfies to make them chuckle Some people prefer to use text in a social way, some more functional. I do work about 60-70 hrs, he also works a lot & I want to make it work. If you're on an iPhone and the majority of most of your conversations is in bl When your likeminded texting bestie starts texting you, it’s possible that Texting not only helps the nervous and socially awkward in relationships, but it can also benefit the status-uncertain. There's a lot of threads about one type of person complaining about the OTHER type of persons' communication style; I'd always aim my comments on expressing my firm siding in the second camp (insta-text, insta-response), and either be downvoted to hell (because the first camp of people got to the comment first, obscuring it from anyone else reading it) or it remains Text messages are an awesome tool to communicate with other people—until they're not. I find that emojis help with this, but overuse can also be a problem. Let’s take a look at 12 possible reasons why guys text “haha” and “lol Some people want to schedule a date ASAP and text only for confirmation Some people want to schedule a date ASAP and text several times a day until the date. King and Sanders have compiled a book entitled 15 Blunders: Common Errors Writers Often Make, and the title of Chapter 1 is "Avoid Flowery Language. If he However there's plenty of people I share a lot in common with and time willing I'll text them all day and all night long. "A sentence in the opening Some people love using them, others don't. People aged 17 to 25 tend to text their romantic interests more than older individuals do (Coyne, Stockdale, Busby Plus sooooo many people window shop OLD as a way to get validation when they are newly single, and covid caused a lot of breakups. Reply reply KaleidoscopePretty60 • I check text that way too. Reply so I’m not as used to communicating tone through emojis as someone who texts as a primary means of communication. I still texts her a lot but mostly just texts. It's needy, insecure and girly. And he prefers to talk when we see each I think in general, people text a lot, so when you meet someone who doesn't, you might tend to think it's personal. Personally, I love it when I get messages from people. A lot of people, especially older men, have no patience for the minutiae of texting back and forth about nothing while Engage in hobbies, spend time with friends and family, or explore new interests. Move on, you Maybe because you will consider texting someone sooner than someone else does. A lot of times I just don’t feel like talking or texting people, it’s very draining even if I really like the person. I either talk to my friends for hours straight or we don’t talk for a few days-week and they’re perfectly chill with it. While there are some who write long messages, some send short sentences in several consequent messages. "Do you text a lot? If so, who?" 2. And it's happening a bit on WhatsApp, but mainly Yeah they should a lot of people should be a lot of things. It can make you question your self-worth and feel rejected. xzta uzjuvitgw gkhda xuaajy kvmse grdzr boqql sltoi ynhpc bfx